Monthly allowance or “pay per date” system: what’s more beneficial?

A sugar daddy and sugar baby may establish a financial agreement early on - as well as their boundaries, such as whether or not they're considering a sexual relationship.

Some sugar babies ask for a monthly allowance, while other get 'expenses' in the form of glam holidays and shopping sprees. As a sugar daddy, you may know what your sugar baby want from a sugar relationshpi from you.

A sugar daddy and sugar baby will always need an arrangement to make things between them work. This is necessary to make a long-lasting professional relationship. The type of arrangement may differ depending on the two parties.

A sugar arrangement refers to the negotiated and agreed upon terms between a sugar daddy (or mommy) and the sugar baby.

The importance of this is that it allows both parties to air their expectations and behaviors, so they can enjoy a mutually beneficial relationship.

An arrangement should be based on honesty and the common desire to enjoy each other’s company. The couple should discuss and outline what they want.

Payment Arrangements

A sugar baby and sugar daddy relationship is treated as a job by most, so money should be discussed.

As a sugar daddy, you and your sugar baby may agree on when will your sugar baby get allowance. Sugar baby can get it every time you meet or monthly. You have to decide for yourself, which is the best arrangement for you.

Monthly allowance VS “pay per date” system

You two need to sort out all of these questions BEFORE the second date. You two need to come to an agreement on PPM (including whether/how platonic dates are compensated), and you need to have a mutual understanding of what the second date entails.

For the first sugar sugar dates, most sugar daddies and sugar babies will choose pay per date model. After you build trust. You can discuss about the monthly allowance.

Benefits of allowance per visit

• It’s better when you don’t want to date very often
• Preferred when you have several sugar babies at the same time
• You can stop the relationship anytime you want

Benefits of monthly allowance

• It is more preferable for mid and long-term relations (2 months and more)
• Sugar daddy can control the frequency of the dates
• If you want to meet often, there is no need to overpay

The money issue should always be discussed between the two to avoid any misunderstandings and disappointment.

Before a sugar daddy talk arrangement with a sugar baby, you may have a clear answer for the following question. You may have in mind what your terms and expectations for the sugar relationship will be.

• How many times do you want meet in a month?
• What time of day (or night) you will be meeting.
• How long will the sugar date last? How many hours?
• Does it include overnight?
• How much do you want to spend per month?
• Do you want PPM or allowance?
• How frequent your meetups would be.
• The venue where you will meet each other.
• What you will be doing during your date. Movies, a play, lunch, partying, a weekend-long getaway?
• Will you be seen together in public?
• Long-term aspects of your relationship: How long do you expect (or want) your arrangement to last?
• How and when will sugar baby be getting your payment

After you get the answers for the above question, you will find out what’s more beneficial for you. Many relationships start out PPM, as it's less risky for the sugar daddy than setting up an allowance right away.

What is the average monthly allowance for a sugar baby?

So you should take note that the allowance may also depend on your location. Usually, sugar baby allowance in top cities tends to be higher compared to small cities by about a few hundred to thousand dollars.

• lowest - $2000
• Average - $3000
• top ladies - $6000-10000

For the smaller cities the pay per meet are different

• lowest - $1000
• average - $2000
• top ladies - $5000

What is the average amount for pay per meet

In this case, the sugar baby receives money after meeting the sugar daddy. The prices may vary depending on the place you are located. In the top cities like New York, Los Angeles or San Francisco there would be higher prices.

• Lowest - $300
• Average - $500
• Top ladies - $500-1800

In the smaller cities prices are slightly lower.

• lowest - $200
• average - $300-500
• top lady - $800-1500

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